Sunday, September 13, 2015

My draft for court

Court case Uncle:

- To survive an ordeal like this - I would be psychologically scarred.

- Judge Wong Keen Onn already ordered him to stay out of our family affairs
- no contact with parents?

- you mean I have no part in the house? i have contributed to the house, renovated it, refurbished it, tidied it, added to it's collection, bought things for the house, i have no part in it? i grow up in the house, sleep in the house, eat in the house?

- my dvds?!
- my school secondary sch and primary sch report book
- Youth mental health resource kit
- my NLT bible A4 book gift by anna hannah
- anna's notebooks to me...
- IMH exercise books blue A5
- books.. peter revelation
- opening my letters and reading my letters - Uncle Andrew's letter and using it against me
- writing all over my letters - ("RETURN TO SENDER" and cancelling the "To Be Opened By Addressee Only")

- my 2 laptops
- my specs
- my macbook - last
- my guitars????!
- my superman shoes!
- my black file with my LGBT news in it
- my 100 over DVDs?!
- my swimsuit from arena cosr $300
- THREW away my whole wardrobe
- take our office chairs away!
- my exercise books!
- my sleeping bag!

- in sec 3, REMOVED all my story books
- in my 20s, REMOVE all my DVD

- my modelling picture big frame one
- took away all our office chairs

- took out the sofa cushion and let me sleep on the planks

- my hamster everything
- my healing promises book and provision promises book

- and my sleeping bag!

- return my laptop in it's original bag with the mouse and dongle

- my favourite soft toy my big bear is gone

- influenced my father to remove my name from the house

- threw away my cupboard and bookshelves.. and pakat with my parents to say that they ask to throw instead.

-  my r l stine books which he sold off for profit!

- get back my laptop!

- my guitars? where?
- my hair rebonding person kit?

have to sign a contract that he cannot send me to IMH.

get back my three laptops: my acer- most important - my hp and my macbook

my modelling portrait of me?

- all my exercise books stolen away. my sensitive information. all my information i wrote down

blocking me to go for church malaysia mission trip - is it necessary? fellowship, cut off my social circle of friends, of fellowship..


cut my headphone wires

wants me to surrender my own personal laptop which is mine

take things that was misappropriated

it is not passive. it is active.

The place where the lost chattel was found. If, for example, the lost chattel is found in a vacated hotel room, it is likely that the owner can be located as opposed to an item found in a public area of a shopping mall. If, instead, the lost chattel was found in a shop in a shopping mall, it would be reasonable to expect the owner to retrace his footsteps back to the shop after realising that he had lost the chattel. In such a situation, in order to avoid criminal liability, it would be prudent for the finder to leave his contact details with the shop owner to discharge his duty of taking reasonable means to give notice to the owner. The finder may only deal with the lost chattel as his own after the owner has failed to claim it in spite of the lapse of a reasonable time. Alternatively, he could leave it behind with the shop owner.

finder of lost property in a public place should take in order to avoid or minimise the risk of criminal liability
I have not abandoned my items. my belongings
Reasonable steps to locate the owner

they were in the SAME bag indentifiable when he handed me the stuff



However, what is clear is that when a person finds a lost chattel which he knows has not been abandoned, which is of some value and where the true owner can possibly be identified and located, the prudent course of action would simply be to report the lost chattel to the police, not because the finder is legally obliged to do so, but because it is the best and most pragmatic way for the finder to discharge his duty in taking reasonable steps to locate the owner, and to avoid a finding of dishonesty that attracts criminal liability under s 403.

wrongful loss to me and a theft


I have a CCTV clock camera he threw away too. It's worth $98.

He even wanted to tie a chain around the fridge to Stop me from eating

- I suggest my uncle not to have any contact with my sister. manipulating her, putting thoughts about me in her mind, directing her actions...

- having access to their personal emails, checking their phones..

Social control.

checking, monitoring
makes it unequal

Spiritual control, psychological
Verbal violence
Emotional violence

Isolated from their family and friends.
Relationship weakens
and trap their victims
that to depend on my uncle
Involves blaming the victims for the violence .. I'm too ugly.. Start to believe it overtime

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- Judge wong keen oon say i can stay in my room. Can you get my parents to change the lock to the old lock so I can go in the gate.

My exercise book with all my music contacts

On 8 March 2015 11.48am My Uncle came to my church again to look for my parents, saying that I have sued my parents again. and that i can freely go homely, giving false ideas to my parents that they worriedly talk to me on the phone: "you sue us again ah?".
Uncle the troublemaker.

I've been under his control and tyranny for too long.

Why does he have to make my parents angry at me and sow discord saying I've commenced my PPO application again when I didn't?

- meanwhile he has to have no contact with parents - tearing family apart

- where's my modelling photo in a picture framed up?

- get back my two laptops HP and Acer and my specs.

19 February 2015
Comes to my grandma house for Chinese New Year:

This is what he said:

" Wei ping, (my sister) I hope you do your duty ah, inform them ah.."

"See, all nice dresses and nice hair man." while watching the TV

"That time I got lunch with this Ang Moh. At St Regis hotel." watching the tv

"Cut all the burned skin, from her face." referring to me

"Animals need to be tamed. Humans don't need"

"What a blardy useless father" referring to my father

"Hypocrite. Look at that hypocritical face" - referring to me "Pig face nobody want

"Dont forget the $20000 ah, wei ping"
"Nothing's gonna be free ah, nowadays."

"Surrender the phone and the laptop to us."

"Can you behave or not Seng Kok, can you behave? Why must you behave like that." - his wife scolded him

"Prevent bulgary, prevent theft, got thief here"

"Don't expect any ang bao. Bloody shit."

Kept on focusing his camera on me, taking videos of me, taking pictures of me.

Been standing behind me watching and looking at my handphone screen.


"The philosophy of the Family Court is to protect family obligations so that family ties may be strengthened and preserved. Family obligations refer to duties that have to be discharged by each spouse to the other, by a parent to his child, and vice versa, and by all persons to their family members.

"These include a parent's responsibility to maintain, nurture and care for his children, an adult child's duty to maintain his parent, a husband's duty to maintain his wife, and the duty of all family members to treat each other with care, concern and respect."

While you can't legally disown your parents in Singapore, the closest thing you can get is a Personal Protection Order, issued in cases of family violence as defined by Section 64 of the Women's Charter.

Family violence can occur in the following forms:
Wilfully or knowingly placing, or attempting to place, a family member in fear of hurt;
Causing hurt to a family member by such act which is known or ought to have been known would result in hurt;
Wrongfully confining or restraining a family member against his will; or
Causing continual harassment with intent to cause or knowing that it is likely to cause anguish to a family member

A "family member" is defined in the Women's Charter as:
Spouse or former spouse of the person
Child of the person, including an adopted child and a step-child
Father or mother of the person
Father-in-law or mother-in-law of the person
Brother or sister of the person
Any other relative of the person or an incapacitated person who in the opinion of the court should, in the circumstances, in either case be regarded as a member of the family of the person


Have been told by Judge Wong Keen Onn not to involve in our family affairs.

Stole my RL Stine books

Re put me back in the name of the house. it is my uncle that influenced my father to strike off my name.. and put my father's name as owner. he wasnt the owner. it was my grandma

and my name isn't in the list of the occupiers in the first place.

On 1 February 2015 My sister told my mum I haven't changed, I am not well yet.


Came to church twice. Call me fatty bom bom
- Said my laptop's in IMH
- Took out his phone and threatened me with taking videos of me.
Took out his handphone and pointed towards me, taking multiple photos of me
- and then to taunt me, he made funny faces to me and gesturing noisily to me. For example, opening and closing his mouth like how an adult scares a baby.

- kept approaching my grandma, telling her and warning her not to talk to me. When my grandma said "no, it's okay" he violently insist and said "NO! CANNOT! CANNOT!"

instructed my father, when Chinese New Year, not to let me go home

- He then followed me into the lift when the service is over and stopped me from going down with my grandmother who was wheeled on a wheelchair by Veron the maid and my father (elaborate)

- he said, "The High Court Chief Justice is my friend!" and "all the social workers are my friends already."

Tried to snatch my grandmother's wheelchair cushion from me when my father passed it to me. And glared at me.

I don't think I need an EO to justify that his actions are threatening.

And the police should start to take action because District Judge Wong Keen Onn had warned him in court that he is not to bother my family or me. Because he was instructing my father, mother and sister exactly what to do and trying to add salt into our relationship, breaking it.

- He also said, and said it very loudly on purpose to my sister so that I could hear it: "We SACK her from her house already. Make her family have NO RELATIONS with her."

Even Sarah Ann Tay said his gestures and himself is threatening.

instructed my sister to cunningly and secretly safekeep my mother's handphone so as to stop communication from me to her.

- I made this report to keep a file of violence he is doing to me to aid me in my trial for him in court and for the police to reveal an offence through investigation that he has to be dealt with the law.
The police should do something because previously, when he thought he had all the power, he physically pulled my hair before, pushed me and snatched my bag from me before.

I need to be protected from him.

He needs to know he can't control my parents. And they have a free choice to love their children.
ruin my relationship with my family

I have suffered alot and he has to be given a stern warning and punishment.

 He is the one who rummaged my room with a group of people

In May 2014, The Court ordered that I am to retrieve all my belongings that I needed from my home, but in the end my lawyer received my items my uncle rummaged my room and gave it in two bags.

In July 2014, he misappropriated my two bags as I was ousted from my church friend's house where I was staying at previously. he took it from outside my home when I put it there after the oust and drove away with it till now.

loss of $10 000 PAY BACK

- my very nice pink cardigan that I like very much is gone. I need it so much.

Letters given to me - frm my letterbox
return laptop and my spectacles

- cause me to have no underwear, bras to wear


- numerous headphones of mine being cut of their wires

- superman shoes - so expensive, where?
- took away my powders i just bought.
soap bars,

- Singapore disability council t shirt
- and my sleeping bag

- all my beautiful clothes gone

- my diploma cert(say it with care)

- Things thrown away - guitars electric, piano keyboard,... DVDs...

- my exercise books

- everything. from my laminated pieces of paper to my encouragement papers my peers wrote for me

- Paste newspapers all around my house with mentioning about schizophrenia and medicines and would highlight the newspapers and lament and repeat to me that I would turn schizophrenia from bipolar if I don't eat my medicine.

- And tearing down my newspaper which are articles by CEO of IMH that people with mental illnesses should not be mollycuddled at home.

- Is not helping me or my family because they could not handle me. But instead, he is doing it for his own gain. - investment from Joshua for his car.

- if he was to help me, he would be GIVING me stuff instead of STEALING my belongings away.
performed VIOLENCE on me.. :

bang my head on the phone at Hougang Care Centre,
wrestle with me on the floor to get my bag, ...
asking my parents not to be with me...
ordering my parents to bring me to the mad house IMH
stealing my bursary money... stealing my phones...throwing away my clothes...
talking to my pastors and banning me from joining my church fellowship to mission trip..
force himself on me and my friends, contacting my friends and telling them about me...
humiliating me and embarassing me in front of a whole group of church friends before the mission trip...
instructing my sister to file police reports against me and not to talk to me...
instructing my father and mother to apply PPO against me...
threw away my wardrobe, bookshelf guitars and DVDs.
- stole my Macbook and confiscated my NUM (New Urban Male) bag
- throw away my hamster cage and bedding straw

so many other things
the authoratative method that caused me more damage than helping me.

- took my whole clothes away. Now I don't even have formal clothes to wear. to work in office jobs, or to go to presentations

- my whole box of hair straightening equipments

- my black file with all my flyers inside

- my red cartoon soft toy which I have so much emotional attachment to it. which I hug to sleep every night

- sec 3 my RL stine story books all sell away

- and my letters not given to me
- And my thumbdrive with my laptop

- mosquito repellant

- where's my specs?

- my sleeping bag

- cut my headphone wires

- where are my DVDs 100 over

- my bookshelf. where are my church devotionals, my Christian books

- my music contacts.. my contacts with my friend's name, no and emails

CANNOT be thrown out like that! all your belongings, even precious things that you treasure!

- my branded bag NUM bag
They want to send me to IMH for NO Future and they have given up future on me that's why. Therefore why should I tolerate them and not pursue this court case?

Send me to IMH, Make me look insane, die die force me to eat the medicine and go there
Make me look like shit,
make me go through hell
an eye for an eye

don't let anyone do things to me that make me leave a BLACK MARK you know
I am the one going through the pain

This is obviously like bullying me,
and stepping on me
like under his toes like that

And moreover his not my dad,
his not my mum and his not me also

and why must i let him control my whole soul like that
like he say what I must listen
i to defend

next time i dont give him a chance
say him until he die

dont let my uncle do it to me
if lets say he do it repeatedly,
one day if im not insane, i will really be labelled as insane

i must really fight back
for all the injustice he has done to me lah.

and when im there right,
you think my uncle will come and visit me and care for me ah
bullcrap bullshit
ask him to get far far away from me
ask him to mind his own business

ask him to care about his own business
im like that is his business no
eat too full nothing to do ah


what's yr agenda actually? what's yr motive behind sending me there
what you really really want
otherwise what do you want to have anything to do with me
i dont even know you that well

originally im not.
to make me think im a loser. some kind of crap like that

all these are all nonsense

ruin my whole relationship with other people
ruin my career
ruin my relationship with my family

the more you go there, the more people will have that impression that im really that kind of person la

and i will end up feeling so bad
that even i dont have depression right,
i will be sunk into depression
i will driven to a corner
why? because i cannot stand up against my uncle

make sure i get close to me i will really bite one

why they want to have anything to do with you, to say this say that
is jealous
see you very good
find mistake with you
make sure i look bad in front of other relative

maybe he has some problems himself that he dont even REALISE IT
people can see right. who is in the right who is in the wrong


Been in contact with my church pastors, invading into my social circle..