Mr Rudy/Rudi Tan Seng Kok: Letter to Court 2

From: Miss Genevieve Tan

IC No: S9047300Z

Drafted since Oct 2014

Please call 91233615 after reading

Dear Family Court,

I have been discharged from IMH on 23 Oct 2014. However, I need time to adjust. I was working because I had a new challenge of rent to pay. I never stayed in a rental house or rather in a group home before officially. I was also working to afford fees.

Previously, I had the same experience where

During and before my hospitalization, my uncle threw away AND took away my belongings. He took my belongings which I left outside the house and put it at Jalan Tenaga.

At the same time, while I was hospitalized, the nurses at IMH mistook my laptop as my friend’s when he retrieved my laptop from the cupboard outside my house and passed it to me in hospital. The nurse forced my friend – Raymond to take it home with him. At wits end and he does not know what to do and he could not keep it with him, he went to my house and met with my parents, giving it to them because he thought that was safekeeping.

However, he did not know that I had to go through a court order to retrieve my laptop which was locked in the house. And now, my uncle has taken the laptop and refused to return to me.

I need the laptop because I had written my response to my family’s Affidavit. I need the laptop because I need to type out and print my response to the Affidavits, which I can’t do so without a computer at all. I have already typed through and is finishing my response, I saved it in my thumbdrive which is together with the laptop in it’s bag that is held hostage by my uncle.

As you know my family has a history of violence and they misappropriate my properties. My M1 internet dongle is also with the laptop in it’s bag.

I took pains to get my laptop back. It was ordered by the judge that my family’s lawyer hand it over to me after a court session in May 2014.

To let me finish my response to the Affidavits for the trial, can you hold a Court mention to order the lawyer to retrieve my laptop back to me?

I can’t continue because my belongings are not with me.

My uncle has done several of these offences of disposing off my items, stealing them off and keeping it.

My 150 DVDs are thrown away or taken away, my guitars, 5 in total and 1 electric guitar amounting to $2000 are stolen by my uncle.

Please request that no one is to go into my room or touch the laptop except me with the presence of the lawyer.

Previously, I got a Court order to get all my belongings out of the house, but they made a grave mistake of having my belongings handed over to my uncle.

He searched my room with a lot of strangers he brought into the house, threw away my cupboard and took most of my belongings away. Leaving some which he handed over to the lawyer.

Judge Wong Keen Onn ruled that I should lock my room door and no one can go inside it but my father and uncle has broken the order and had my room ransacked. My uncle is my father’s third older brother. Judge Wong said no one should enter my room.

that if anything goes missing, I would again have to make a police report.

This is my iPhone Notes on the latest things that he do to me: it is a 9 page long culimative

Court case Uncle:

My Uncle is controlling, manipulative, wants to control all things, be in control, control everyone, kopea, authoritative, overbearing, forceful, wants to be in charge, makes sure everything goes against you.

print msgs to wei ping

- 5 April 2016 Tues

1. 4 May 2016 7pm

Ordered my father to force me to delete my Facebook about my grandma within 3 days if not he will sue me. Got shouted by my father.

durress

coercion

24 apr sun

Prisoner. One year 2 days...!

No degree, OUT!

23 April 2016 Sat

At my grandma’s wake

"Ensure PEOPLE don't steal the money box"

when i walking off with my father he whistle again

and said go go! go already i can tell u more

don't eat medicine, still SICK! Still siao!...

21 April 2016 Friday

Force me to switch off my phone

at ah ma's house say "if ok dont eat medicine? is siao."

- 5 April 2016 Tues

1. Why I visit after visiting hours

2. I pull out Ah ma's feeding tube

3. If he ever sees me at ah ma's ward, he will call the police

4. He already reported my name to the SGH to ban me from visiting her

spoke to my home's 3 people for 3 hrs

my father has paranoid schiz and my uncle makes it worst by saying i go around cheating money. increasing her suspicion

he wants me to stay in IMH for one year. Outpatient? Doesn't have to be inpatient!

and when im inside, keep asking my parents to change number. He can maintain the same number but he detriments my parents by changing the number people know them by!

throw away my things.

My mother will protect me. But he disregards my mother and bullies her!

for example, throw away my hamster and it's paraphenalia!

Could stop him. To prevent exploitation and protect moral values

Lasting Power of Attorney - best interest - worst choice

- IMH - ruin my life, disrupt my studies. so free. everyday stay in IMH, don't have my life ah

- my modelling picture frame missing

- CNY 2016

Started off with fake calling about court

- Next asking ah ma john paul working and that implying i should work

- den slamming leg and calling me fatty bom bom

- the eyes moving left moving right. count: later missing ang bao

- whistling the fly me to the moon song twice

- you want to eat, can, other people cannot... if not eat already fly me to the moon

7. You know what's her condition not

8. Saying out loud "Family the most important thing is RESPECT." when he doesnt even respect me by throwing my belonging

9. tell him don't have to interfere with my family and reporting my affairs - i go to this grandma relative house bai nian he also have to tell my father.

Good Friday : make fake call again: sharp video also can

whistling fly me to the moon again

26 Mar 2016

Told my parents I go around cheating money, Asking people to donate to me etc that I ask pastor to visit my grandma.. when i never

he's the one that is cheating. charging high price for low quality work. as a contractor. people call him dishonest contractor

he himself do it. but he says it's me who do it. why? because it reflects himself!...

make my mother so disappointed in me after hearing the fake news... why want to wrench my mother's heart?!!

I remember the time when I actually brought a friend home, he went and TALKED to my friend and tried to convince her I was mentally ill.

spread rumors abt me

- catch my father to scold. and in turn my father scold me

30th Mar 2016 Wednesday 3.30pm

My grandma went into hospital. in critical condition and getting worst each day. I heard there is a family conference at 3pm for all the Tan family for the doctors to update us about the condition of my grandma. I know my uncle would disapprove and bar me from coming to the meeting so I went after they entered.

When I entered, my uncle provoked me by singing "fly me to the moon! and let me shit among the sands! hahaha! In other words, please sack me out! In other words, kick me out. Send me to the IMH! lala"

Making the rest of the people in the room laugh out loud at me. Humiliating me.

There was my second uncle (father's second older brother), and his two sons - my cousins - Joshua included, my auntie (father's older sis) and uncle Rudi's wife.

Not trusting me. As an uncle he should protect me, love me, coax me. But instead, he is spiteful towards me, hurt me, hate me.

And den he teased: "NOW I HAVE IPHONE 6! I rule the world now!"

Then he said "we have to get rid of the Undesirable Element here"

And he won't relent, he take a photo of me and video me when I cried and talked to the doctor.

He tried to shoo the doctor from me, kept saying "don't disturb the doctor ah, she got alot of things to do, she got alot of patients to attend to"

and breaking the conversation with me and the doctor

I burst into tears. He ridiculed me - don't cry crocodile tears. Then tell everyone, later she will cry SHARK TEARS.

- He would cut out newspaper articles about people with schizophrenia killing, murdering people, and paste it all over my house. And told me, "you better eat your medicine, if not your bipolar will become schizophrenia and siao siao"

The newspaper article would talk about other comforting words to the mentally ill, but he would highlight the word "medicine" and "murder" and such like that purposely.

When I paste encouraging newspaper articles to counter that, he tears off the paper and shreds it into pieces.

When I was young, bring me to make PROGRESSIVE lenses. And I go through atropine eye drops to dilate my eyes.. All his recommendations are wrong!...

- My grandma is in hospital now. And my uncle tell the maid, when I come, call him. Informing him if i come to visit my grandma, making a scene out of me

- remembering the time when he forced to confiscate my IC from me.

He followed me out of ICA. When I tried to flag a cab to get out of sight, he took his handphone camera and pointed at me. And then he took a picture and video at me.

Before that, he waited for me at the first floor of ICA for me to come down after collecting back my IC with Joshua Tan Wei Rong my cousin, his nephew.

They laughed when I came down.

The ICA officer actually wanted to wait for them to leave before I go, to avoid me meeting up with them.

He then joked to the security officer at the entrance of the ICA, pointing at me to the officer and laughing.

They behaved like this because they were ridiculing why should I have possession of my own IC.

My uncle decided to take my IC from my mum and bring it to ICA because the officer warned my cousin Joshua that it's an offence to possess my IC and I needed it urgently.

Wtf is wrong with them seriously.

This happened in roughly 2013.

- To survive an ordeal like this - I would be psychologically scarred.

- Judge Wong Keen Onn already ordered him to stay out of our family affairs

- no contact with parents?

- you mean I have no part in the house? i have contributed to the house, renovated it, refurbished it, tidied it, added to it's collection, bought things for the house, i have no part in it? i grow up in the house, sleep in the house, eat in the house?

- my dvds?!

- my school secondary sch and primary sch report book

- Youth mental health resource kit

- my NLT bible A4 book gift by anna hannah

- anna's notebooks to me...

- IMH exercise books blue A5

- books.. peter revelation

- opening my letters and reading my letters - Uncle Andrew's letter and using it against me

- writing all over my letters - ("RETURN TO SENDER" and cancelling the "To Be Opened By Addressee Only")

- my 2 laptops

- my specs

- my macbook - last

- my guitars????!

- my superman shoes!

- my black file with my LGBT news in it

- my 100 over DVDs?!

- my swimsuit from arena cost $300

- THREW away my whole wardrobe

- take our office chairs away!

- my exercise books!

- my sleeping bag!

- in sec 3, REMOVED all my story books

- in my 20s, REMOVE all my DVD

- my modelling picture big frame one

- took away all our office chairs

- took out the sofa cushion and let me sleep on the planks

- my hamster everything

- my healing promises book and provision promises book

- and my sleeping bag!

- return my laptop in it's original bag with the mouse and dongle

- my favourite soft toy my big bear is gone

- influenced my father to remove my name from the house

- threw away my cupboard and bookshelves.. and pakat with my parents to say that they ask to throw instead.

- my r l stine books which he sold off for profit!

- get back my laptop!

- my guitars? where?

- my hair rebonding person kit?

have to sign a contract that he cannot send me to IMH.

get back my three laptops: my acer- most important - my hp and my macbook

my modelling portrait of me?

- all my exercise books stolen away. my sensitive information. all my information i wrote down

blocking me to go for church malaysia mission trip - is it necessary? fellowship, cut off my social circle of friends, of fellowship..

cut my headphone wires

wants me to surrender my own personal laptop which is mine

take things that was misappropriated

it is not passive. it is active.

The place where the lost chattel was found. If, for example, the lost chattel is found in a vacated hotel room, it is likely that the owner can be located as opposed to an item found in a public area of a shopping mall. If, instead, the lost chattel was found in a shop in a shopping mall, it would be reasonable to expect the owner to retrace his footsteps back to the shop after realising that he had lost the chattel. In such a situation, in order to avoid criminal liability, it would be prudent for the finder to leave his contact details with the shop owner to discharge his duty of taking reasonable means to give notice to the owner. The finder may only deal with the lost chattel as his own after the owner has failed to claim it in spite of the lapse of a reasonable time. Alternatively, he could leave it behind with the shop owner.

finder of lost property in a public place should take in order to avoid or minimise the risk of criminal liability

I have not abandoned my items. my belongings

Reasonable steps to locate the owner

they were in the SAME bag indentifiable when he handed me the stuff

However, what is clear is that when a person finds a lost chattel which he knows has not been abandoned, which is of some value and where the true owner can possibly be identified and located, the prudent course of action would simply be to report the lost chattel to the police, not because the finder is legally obliged to do so, but because it is the best and most pragmatic way for the finder to discharge his duty in taking reasonable steps to locate the owner, and to avoid a finding of dishonesty that attracts criminal liability under s 403.

wrongful loss to me and a theft

I have a CCTV clock camera he threw away too. It's worth $98.

He even wanted to tie a chain around the fridge to Stop me from eating

- I suggest my uncle not to have any contact with my sister. manipulating her, putting thoughts about me in her mind, directing her actions...

- having access to their personal emails, checking their phones..

Social control.

checking, monitoring

makes it unequal

Spiritual control, psychological

Verbal violence

Emotional violence

Isolated from their family and friends.

Relationship weakens

and trap their victims

that to depend on my uncle

Involves blaming the victims for the violence .. I'm too ugly.. Start to believe it overtime

- Judge wong keen oon say i can stay in my room. Can you get my parents to change the lock to the old lock so I can go in the gate.

My exercise book with all my music contacts

On 8 March 2015 11.48am My Uncle came to my church again to look for my parents, saying that I have sued my parents again. and that i can freely go homely, giving false ideas to my parents that they worriedly talk to me on the phone: "you sue us again ah?".

Uncle the troublemaker.

I've been under his control and tyranny for too long.

Why does he have to make my parents angry at me and sow discord saying I've commenced my PPO application again when I didn't?

- meanwhile he has to have no contact with parents - tearing family apart

- where's my modelling photo in a picture framed up?

- get back my two laptops HP and Acer and my specs.

19 February 2015

Comes to my grandma house for Chinese New Year:

This is what he said:

" Wei ping, (my sister) I hope you do your duty ah, inform them ah.."

"See, all nice dresses and nice hair man." while watching the TV

"That time I got lunch with this Ang Moh. At St Regis hotel." watching the tv

"Cut all the burned skin, from her face." referring to me

"Animals need to be tamed. Humans don't need"

"What a blardy useless father" referring to my father

"Hypocrite. Look at that hypocritical face" - referring to me "Pig face nobody want

"Dont forget the $20000 ah, wei ping"

"Nothing's gonna be free ah, nowadays."

"Surrender the phone and the laptop to us."

"Can you behave or not Seng Kok, can you behave? Why must you behave like that." - his wife scolded him

"Prevent bulgary, prevent theft, got thief here"

"Don't expect any ang bao. Bloody shit."

Kept on focusing his camera on me, taking videos of me, taking pictures of me.

Been standing behind me watching and looking at my handphone screen.

"The philosophy of the Family Court is to protect family obligations so that family ties may be strengthened and preserved. Family obligations refer to duties that have to be discharged by each spouse to the other, by a parent to his child, and vice versa, and by all persons to their family members.

"These include a parent's responsibility to maintain, nurture and care for his children, an adult child's duty to maintain his parent, a husband's duty to maintain his wife, and the duty of all family members to treat each other with care, concern and respect."

While you can't legally disown your parents in Singapore, the closest thing you can get is a Personal Protection Order, issued in cases of family violence as defined by Section 64 of the Women's Charter.

Family violence can occur in the following forms:

· Wilfully or knowingly placing, or attempting to place, a family member in fear of hurt;

· Causing hurt to a family member by such act which is known or ought to have been known would result in hurt;

· Wrongfully confining or restraining a family member against his will; or

· Causing continual harassment with intent to cause or knowing that it is likely to cause anguish to a family member

A "family member" is defined in the Women's Charter as:

· Spouse or former spouse of the person

· Child of the person, including an adopted child and a step-child

· Father or mother of the person

· Father-in-law or mother-in-law of the person

· Brother or sister of the person

· Any other relative of the person or an incapacitated person who in the opinion of the court should, in the circumstances, in either case be regarded as a member of the family of the person

Have been told by Judge Wong Keen Onn not to involve in our family affairs.

Stole my RL Stine books

Re put me back in the name of the house. it is my uncle that influenced my father to strike off my name.. and put my father's name as owner. he wasnt the owner. it was my grandma

and my name isn't in the list of the occupiers in the first place.

On 1 February 2015 My sister told my mum I haven't changed, I am not well yet.

Came to church twice. Call me fatty bom bom

- Said my laptop's in IMH

- Took out his phone and threatened me with taking videos of me.

Took out his handphone and pointed towards me, taking multiple photos of me

- and then to taunt me, he made funny faces to me and gesturing noisily to me. For example, opening and closing his mouth like how an adult scares a baby.

- kept approaching my grandma, telling her and warning her not to talk to me. When my grandma said "no, it's okay" he violently insist and said "NO! CANNOT! CANNOT!"

instructed my father, when Chinese New Year, not to let me go home

- He then followed me into the lift when the service is over and stopped me from going down with my grandmother who was wheeled on a wheelchair by Veron the maid and my father (elaborate)

- he said, "The High Court Chief Justice is my friend!" and "all the social workers are my friends already."

Tried to snatch my grandmother's wheelchair cushion from me when my father passed it to me. And glared at me.

I don't think I need an EO to justify that his actions are threatening.

And the police should start to take action because District Judge Wong Keen Onn had warned him in court that he is not to bother my family or me. Because he was instructing my father, mother and sister exactly what to do and trying to add salt into our relationship, breaking it.

- He also said, and said it very loudly on purpose to my sister so that I could hear it: "We SACK her from her house already. Make her family have NO RELATIONS with her."

Even Sarah Ann Tay said his gestures and himself is threatening.

instructed my sister to cunningly and secretly safekeep my mother's handphone so as to stop communication from me to her.

- I made this report to keep a file of violence he is doing to me to aid me in my trial for him in court and for the police to reveal an offence through investigation that he has to be dealt with the law.

The police should do something because previously, when he thought he had all the power, he physically pulled my hair before, pushed me and snatched my bag from me before.

I need to be protected from him.

He needs to know he can't control my parents. And they have a free choice to love their children.

ruin my relationship with my family

I have suffered alot and he has to be given a stern warning and punishment.

He is the one who rummaged my room with a group of people

In May 2014, The Court ordered that I am to retrieve all my belongings that I needed from my home, but in the end my lawyer received my items my uncle rummaged my room and gave it in two bags.

In July 2014, he misappropriated my two bags as I was ousted from my church friend's house where I was staying at previously. he took it from outside my home when I put it there after the oust and drove away with it till now.

loss of $10 000 PAY BACK

- my very nice pink cardigan that I like very much is gone. I need it so much.

Letters given to me - frm my letterbox

return laptop and my spectacles

- cause me to have no underwear, bras to wear

- numerous headphones of mine being cut of their wires

- superman shoes - so expensive, where?

- took away my powders i just bought.

soap bars,

- Singapore disability council t shirt

- and my sleeping bag

- all my beautiful clothes gone

- my diploma cert(say it with care)

- Things thrown away - guitars electric, piano keyboard,... DVDs...

- my exercise books

- everything. from my laminated pieces of paper to my encouragement papers my peers wrote for me

- Paste newspapers all around my house with mentioning about schizophrenia and medicines and would highlight the newspapers and lament and repeat to me that I would turn schizophrenia from bipolar if I don't eat my medicine.

- And tearing down my newspaper which are articles by CEO of IMH that people with mental illnesses should not be mollycuddled at home.

- Is not helping me or my family because they could not handle me. But instead, he is doing it for his own gain. - investment from Joshua for his car.

- if he was to help me, he would be GIVING me stuff instead of STEALING my belongings away.

performed VIOLENCE on me.. :

bang my head on the phone at Hougang Care Centre,

wrestle with me on the floor to get my bag, ...

asking my parents not to be with me...

ordering my parents to bring me to the mad house IMH

stealing my bursary money... stealing my phones...throwing away my clothes...

talking to my pastors and banning me from joining my church fellowship to mission trip..

force himself on me and my friends, contacting my friends and telling them about me...

humiliating me and embarassing me in front of a whole group of church friends before the mission trip...

instructing my sister to file police reports against me and not to talk to me...

instructing my father and mother to apply PPO against me...

threw away my wardrobe, bookshelf guitars and DVDs.

- stole my Macbook and confiscated my NUM (New Urban Male) bag

- throw away my hamster cage and bedding straw

so many other things

the authoratative method that caused me more damage than helping me.

- took my whole clothes away. Now I don't even have formal clothes to wear. to work in office jobs, or to go to presentations

- my whole box of hair straightening equipments

- my black file with all my flyers inside

- my red cartoon soft toy which I have so much emotional attachment to it. which I hug to sleep every night

- sec 3 my RL stine story books all sell away

- and my letters not given to me

- And my thumbdrive with my laptop

- mosquito repellant

- where's my specs?

- my sleeping bag

- cut my headphone wires

- where are my DVDs 100 over

- my bookshelf. where are my church devotionals, my Christian books

- my music contacts.. my contacts with my friend's name, no and emails

CANNOT be thrown out like that! all your belongings, even precious things that you treasure!

- my branded bag NUM bag

They want to send me to IMH for NO Future and they have given up future on me that's why. Therefore why should I tolerate them and not pursue this court case?

Send me to IMH, Make me look insane, die die force me to eat the medicine and go there

Make me look like shit,

make me go through hell

an eye for an eye

don't let anyone do things to me that make me leave a BLACK MARK you know

I am the one going through the pain

This is obviously like bullying me,

and stepping on me

like under his toes like that

And moreover his not my dad,

his not my mum and his not me also

and why must i let him control my whole soul like that

like he say what I must listen

i to defend

next time i dont give him a chance

say him until he die

dont let my uncle do it to me

if lets say he do it repeatedly,

one day if im not insane, i will really be labelled as insane

i must really fight back

for all the injustice he has done to me lah.

and when im there right,

you think my uncle will come and visit me and care for me ah

bullcrap bullshit

ask him to get far far away from me

ask him to mind his own business

ask him to care about his own business

im like that is his business no

eat too full nothing to do ah

what's yr agenda actually? what's yr motive behind sending me there

what you really really want

otherwise what do you want to have anything to do with me

i dont even know you that well

originally im not.

to make me think im a loser. some kind of crap like that

all these are all nonsense

ruin my whole relationship with other people

ruin my career

ruin my relationship with my family

the more you go there, the more people will have that impression that im really that kind of person la

and i will end up feeling so bad

that even i dont have depression right,

i will be sunk into depression

i will driven to a corner

why? because i cannot stand up against my uncle

make sure i get close to me i will really bite one

why they want to have anything to do with you, to say this say that

is jealous

see you very good

find mistake with you

make sure i look bad in front of other relative

maybe he has some problems himself that he dont even REALISE IT

people can see right. who is in the right who is in the wrong

Been in contact with my church pastors, invading into my social circle..

- End of iPhone notes -

I have gone to my house recently and found out that my dongle is kept in a box and it’s used by my sister.

The internet dongle is a subscription I subscribed to M1 and I receive continuous bill letters from them. However, it is being kept and refused to be returned to me.

The loss of my dongle has caused great inconvenience to me, as I can’t access to the internet using a laptop or make use of the unlimited internet that I subscribed to. It has caused me emotional trauma that I have trouble going to the basic and necessary internet.

EO:

Most importantly and lastly, I would like to request and appeal for an EO to be upon the perpetuator I have applied PPO against. EO against my uncle especially. Because I don’t want a session where my family be violent towards me. Especially my uncle. I cannot protect myself and the law isn’t there to protect me because there isn’t an Expedited Order covering me.

It has happened before.

I was left stranded in the cold when my uncle harassed me after I applied for PPO and had to appear in court and an EO was not granted.

The reason being things would worsen when a date is set and I would have to appear in court.

Dear Court, could I have a date where I can resume my trial? The reason why I had to come back so late was because I needed to spend Christmas and Chinese New Year in peace. The last time I applied for a PPO during before Christmas, I got locked out of my house and I had to sleep at the corridor at the cold winter atmosphere for days. Also, my uncle would start to harass me when I start the PPO during festive seasons. Due to my depression, I would feel extremely upset and depressed during Christmas and Chinese New Year because my uncle would disturb me and block my connection to my family for the reason because I applied for PPO against them during this period.

My past Christmas and New Year experience was very painful. My family called the ambulance and sent me in IMH, hoping I would be locked up there and I spent my Chinese New Year locked up in IMH. unable to be discharged in time.

These caused me huge emotional distress and imbalance as I missed the angbao taking and reunion with my beloved relatives especially in Malaysia. That caused me to take a one-way bus to Seremban after I was discharged and plagued me with numerous homeless nights,

I had to visit my relatives this and last Chinese New Year in peace. And in favor of my family members. I need to eat reunion dinner. Most suicides happen during festive seasons when the outcast or vunerable one is outcasted from their families during celebrative seasons. And I couldn’t afford the dark thoughts.

I had decided to commence and remove my PPO application after Chinese new year. And I was working as a security officer in SEA games which just ended recently last year, which begin my trial.

I cannot just stop and write off or suck off my PPO application because my uncle is still violent and harassing towards me to this very date. In the month of February 2015, my uncle came to my church twice. Called me fatty bom bom. Said my laptop’s in IMH, took out his phone and threatened me with taking videos of me. Took out his handphone and pointed towards me, taking multiple photos of me. And then to taunt me, he made funny faces to me and gesturing noisily to me. For example, opening and closing his mouth like how an adult scares a baby. Kept approaching my grandma, telling her and warning her not to talk to me. When my grandma said “no, it’s okay” he violently insist and said “No! CANNOT! CANNOT!”. He instructed my father, when in Chinese new year, not to let me go home. He then followed me into the lift when the service is over and stopped me from going down with my grandmother who was wheeled on a wheelchair by Veron the maid and my father. He stood close and menacingly to me. He said: “The High Court Chief Justice is my friend!”and äll the social workers are my friends already.” Tried to snatch my grandmother’s wheelchair cushion from me when my father passed it to me. And glared at me.

I don’t think I need an EO to justify that his actions are threatening.

These are the instructions he gave my sister in malice and harm towards me:

He also said, and said it very loudly on purpose to my sister so that I could hear it: “We SACK her from her house already. Make her family have NO RELATIONS with her.”

Instructed my sister to cunningly and secretly and secretly safekeep my mother’s handphone so as to stop communication from me to her.

I made police reports to keep a file of violence he is doing to me to aid me in my trial for him in court and for the police to reveal an offence through investigation that he has to be dealt with the law. The police should do something because previously, when he thought he had all the power, he physically pulled my hair before, pushed my, and snatched my bag from me before.

I need to be protected from him.

He needs to know he can’t control my parents. And they have a free choice to love their children. Ruin my relationship with my family.

I have suffered a lot and he has to be given a stern warning and punishment. He is the one who rummaged my room with a group of people.

In May 2014, The Court ordered that I am to retrieve all my belongings that I needed from my home, but in the end my lawyer received my items my uncle rummaged my room and gave it in two bags.

In July 2014, he misappropriated my two bags as I was ousted from my church friend’s house where I was staying at previously. He took it from outside my home when I put it there after the oust and drove away with it till now.

My properties and belongings were amounting to a loss of $10 000. He has to PAY BACK for misappropriating my items.

My very nice pink cardigan that I like very much is gone. I need it so much.

Things included letters given to me from my letterbox. Return my laptop, and my spectacles. He caused me to have no underwear, bras to wear.

Also, there are numerous headphones of mine at home being cut of their wires by my uncle.

I had superman shoes. which were $150 per pair, gone. He took my guitars, electric piano keyboard… DVDs.. my exercise books.. Everything, from my laminated pieces of paper to my encouragement papers my peers wrote for me.

He paste newspapers all around my house with mentioning about schizophrenia and medicines and would highlight the newspaper and lament and repeat to me that I would turn schizophrenia from bipolar if I don’t eat my medicine.

And tearing down my newspaper which are articles by CEO of IMH that people with mental illness should not be mollycuddled at home. Is not helping me or my family. So many other things. The authoritative

I have gone to my house recently and found out that my dongle is kept in a box and is used by my sister.

The internet dongle is a subscription I subscribed to M1 and I receive continuous bill letters from them. However, it is being kept and refused to return to me.

The loss of my dongle has cause great inconvenience to me, as I can’t access to the internet using a laptop or make use of the dongle that I subscribed to. It has caused me emotional trauma that I have trouble using the basic and necessary laptop.

Because I wanted to spend a normal Christmas, New Year and Chinese New Year, I didn’t immediately pursue the PPO. I had hell Christmas and New Year when I started my PPO before that times and I felt really depressed.

Most importantly and lastly, I would like to request and appeal for an EO to be upon the perpetuator I have applied PPO against my uncle especially. Because I don’t want a session where my uncle be violent towards me. I cannot protect myself and the EO isn’t there to protect me because there isn’t an Expedited Order covering me.

It has happened before.

I was left stranded in the cold when my uncle harassed me after I applied for PPO and had to appear in court and an EO was not granted.

The reason being things could worsen when a date is set and I would have to appear in court.

Dear Court, could I have a date where I can resume my trial? The reason why I had to come back so late was because I needed to spend Christmas and Chinese New Year in peace. The last time I applied for a PPO during before Christmas, I got locked out of my home and I had to sleep at the corridor at the cold winter atmosphere for days. Also, my uncle would start to harass me when I start the PPO during festive seasons. Due to my depression, I would feel extremely upset and depressed during Christmas and Chinese New Year because my uncle would disturb me and blocked my connection to my family for the reason because I applied for PPO against them during this period.

My past Christmas and New Year experience was very painful. My family called the ambulance and sent me in IMH. My uncle instructed my father to call. Hoping I would be locked up there and I spend my Chinese New Year locked up in IMH. Unable to be discharged in time.

These caused me huge emotional distress and imbalance as I missed the ang bao taking and reunion with my beloved relatives especially in Malaysia. That caused me to take a one – way bus to Seremban after I was discharged and plagued me with numerous homeless nights.

I had to visit my relatives this Chinese New Year in peace. And in favor of my family members. I need to eat reunion dinner. Most suicides happen during festive seasons when the outcast or vulnerable one is outcasted from their families during celebrative seasons. And I couldn’t afford the dark thoughts.

I had decided to commence and resume my PPO application after Chinese New Year. And I was working as in SEA games which after that I begin my trial.

I cannot just stop and write off or struck off my PPO application because my uncle is still violent and harassing towards me. to this very date. In the month of February 2015 my uncle came to my church twice. Called me fatty bom bom, said my laptop’s in IMH, took out his phone and threatened me with taking videos of me. Took out his handphone and pointed towards me and taking multiple photos of me. And then to taunt me, he made funny faces to me and gesturing nosily to me. For example, opening and closing his mouth like how an adult scares a baby. Kept approaching my grandma, telling her and warning her not to talk to me. When my grandma said “No, it’s okay” he violently insist and said “NO! CANNOT! CANNOT!”. He instructed my father, when in Chinese New Year, not to let me go home. He then followed me into the lift when the service is over and stopped me from going down with my grandmother who was wheeled on the wheelchair by Veron the maid and my father. He stood close and menacingly to me. He said, “ The High Court Chief Justice is my friend!”, “And all the social workers are my friends already!”. Tried to snatch my grandmother’s wheelchair cushion from me when my father passed it to me. And glared at me.

I don’t think I need an EO to justify that his actions are threatening.

He also said, and said it very loudly, on purpose to my sister so that I could hear it: “We SACK her from her house already. Make her family have NO RELATIONS with her.”

Instructed my sister to cunningly and secretly safekeep my mother’s handphone so as to keep communication from me to her.

I need to be protected from him.

He needs to know he can’t control my parents. And they have the free choice to love their children. Ruin my relationship with my family.

I have suffered a lot and he has to be given a stern warning and punishment. He is the one who rummaged my room with a group of people.

My properties and belongings were amounting to a loss of $10 000. HE has to PAY BACK for misappropriating my items.

My very nice pink cardigan that I like very much is gone. I need it so much.

Things included letters given to me from my letterbox. Return my laptop, and my spectacles. He caused me to have no underwear, bras to wear.

Also, there are numerous headphones of mine at home being cut of their wires.

I had superman shoes. Whieh were $150 per pair, gone. He took my guitars, electric piano keyboard… DVDs.. my books.. Everything, from my laminated pieces of paper to my encouragement papers my peers wrote for me.

He paste newspapers all around my house with mentioning about schizophrenia and medicines an would highlight the newspapers and lament and repeat to me that I would turn schizophrenia from bipolar if I don’t eat my medicine.

And tearing down my newspaper which are articles by CEO of IMH that people with mental illnesses should not be mollycuddled at home. Is not helping me or my family. So many other things. The authoritative method that caused me more damage than helping me.

These things CANNOT be thrown out like that! All your belongings, even precious things that you treasure!

Ruin my whole relationship with other people, ruin my career, ruin my relationship with my family.

And I will end up feeling so bad that even I don’t have depression right, I will be sunk into depression. I will be driven to a corner. Why? Because I cannot stand up against my uncle.

So, I need to resume trial. Because I know my uncle would not stop to be violent with me. I have been postponing my restart in court, quietly tolerating his abuse because I want to settle down. I went into hospital in July 2014. A day before my trial of family court because I’ve been sleeping on staircase and my doctor has heard of my toileting issues without a home. and he admitted me into IMH because neighbours have been seeing me sleeping at the staircase. I slept at the staircase at my house because my father and was instructed by my uncle locked me out of my house because I have started PPO application against both. As a bid to punish me and trying to stop me from being successful in my application.

In IMH, I was forced to go into Rehab. Which wasted another 2 of my months spending in hospital for Rehab. I spent a total of 3 months in the hospital from the date I was supposed to go on a trial. So I was backdated for 3 whole months not able to restart trial. Moreover, I couldn’t resolve my police report on my uncle taking away all my belongings. I was very traumatised by it. Losing all my belongings.

I would like to add that I was decided to also start trial online until now. because I am also drugged. I had a whole lot to catch up being locked up for 3 months. And then I wasn’t let off. Even month I am given injection. This drug made my thinking slower, I have frequent side effects and I can’t function properly because sometimes my eyes would keep looking upwards – a side effect of the drug. And I would feel paranoid and racing heartbeat – another detrimenting effect of the medicine.

I quietly take the medicine because I don’t want to go into IMH again. But I plan to change doctor – see the CEO and get off medication. But I have to settle my court case first.

I feel agony prolonging this because my uncle had been a tyrant. I feel unsettled that justice has not been done on him. And I can’t rest until he gets what he deserves. He has made my life like shit.

Being on drugs made me slow. Pardon me for dragging it for a year. I have family issues to deal with and an impeding of my mind too.

Please Judge, I really hope to see Justice done and get the PPO I deserve because I need it.

Help me, you know.

However good and well my relationship with my parents and sister have been, - calls, visits, buying things, there will be problems and violence when I go home eventually. So I need my PPO to protect me.

And lastly, it’s my death wish to complete this PPO application, tediously as it is, and arduous. I can’t just give up everything when have gone at length and gone so much and far.

I mainly want to get back to court and see the Judge to get back my laptop and justice.

But lastly and this is the most important: Please tell me if I can really get a PPO out of this, and whether I have to restart my PPO application ALL OVER AGAIN – seeing counselor, summoning them to court. I can’t do that. I have to start from where I stopped. It has already been a long and tedious process for me already. Tell me my chances.

IF chances are I am not able to get my PPO, because all the evidences are time lapsed, I rather not cause an alarm and you all inform my family that I sent you this email. I rather just let it go.

But if possible, a restart in my trial is possible, I would want to go ahead.

The reason why I want to might as well drop this case against my parents (not my uncle) is because my friend has talked to my parents and things are better. But my things are still missing.

Please help.

If the possibility of getting my PPO is low, please keep this email a secret and do not inform my uncle or his lawyer.

The main thing I need this court case is DEO. Domestic Exclusion Order. I need to have exclusive rights to my room in case anything happens to me. I can go home because I have exclusive rights. And stop violence by preventing people to go into my room while I’m inside.

I have stayed in IMH for 6 months because my parents refused to let me in the house nor bring me home and I don’t have a place to go.

I may also want to reapply if that’s the case as well. I can’t let go that my uncle misappropriated my belongings. A huge chunk of me is affected.

Regards,

Miss g

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