Response to Affidavit:

Response to Affidavit:

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Drunkard. When I was not yet born, My mother told me: he Drunk last time go see ah ma.
And tell my mum "yi cai come and sit beside me"
Mad dog.

When the whole world is mourning when my grandma died, my uncle take the opportunity to ridicule me, make fun of me, laugh at me and make jokes at my dearest grandmother's wake. How sarcastic that is!

He keeps sending me to IMH in a bid to defeat me. If I don't know when I'm going to IMH again, how can I work a permanent job? Suddenly go IMH for few months, how the hell you hold down a full time job?

The Philipinos nurse work daynightdaynight, den my job lost.


“There are witnesses trying to harm me.

Ruthless witnesses come forward;

They ask me questions that I know nothing about.

 They pay me back evil for the good I have done. They make me so very sad. When they were sick, I was sad and wore sackcloth. I went without eating to show my sorrow. (May my prayers for them not be answered!) I mourned for them as I would for a friend or a brother. I bowed low with sadness, crying as I would for my own mother.

But when I had troubles, they laughed at me. They were not really family. I was surrounded and attacked by people I didn’t even know.

They made fun of me, using the worst language.

They ground their teeth to show their anger. My Lord, how long will you watch this happen?

Save my life from these people who are attacking me like lions and trying to destroy me.
Don’t let my lying enemies keep on laughing at me.

They have no reason to hate me.

Surely they will be punished for their secret plans.

They have no friendly words for others, but plan ways to hurt those who want to live in peace.

They are telling lies about me.

They say, “Aha! We know what you did!” Lord, surely you can see what is happening. So don’t keep quiet. Lord, don’t leave me. Wake up! Get up! My God and my Lord, fight for me, and bring me justice. Lord my God, judge me with your fairness.

Don’t let those people laugh at me.

Don’t let them think, “Aha! We got what we wanted!”

Don’t let them say, “We destroyed her!” Let my enemies be ashamed and embarrassed—

all those who were happy about my troubles.

Proud of themselves, they treated me as worthless. So let them be covered with shame and disgrace. "They lie to themselves.

They don’t see their own faults, so they are not sorry for what they do.

Their words are wicked lies.”

Psalms 35:11-17, 19-26; 36:2-3 ERV


"Distanced myself except for her father who still turns to me for help."
But, I remember when he helped me, and I said I didn't want him to help me anymore because he is traumatising. Then he said "Ok! Then return all the things that I helped you!"
Wa, so if he help is not unconditional help you know. He expects something in return and his 'help' can be reversed one.
So? We rather not turn to him for help AT ALL.

I can't believe he's telling Lies to the max. That "in that incident she attempted to pull the breathing tube out of my grandmother's nose saying that it made her uncomfortable. My brother who was present with me got a shock and we scolded her" this didn't even happen.

I told this to my mother and she was flabbergasted. She said how can they like that. All you Jonathan Joshua and Sa Pek all one gang one what. They will pull me down no matter what. 
But this is an ABSOLUTE LIE and Utter defamation and the most wretched way of dealing with me.

I swear when my grandmother died they will bully me even more. The ultimate family dynamics.

During the family conference at SGH. My aunty, his sister Katherine Tan said "dont fight la... we family please la"

If he really love his niece, would you call her "fatty bom bom" and leave her to that?

This is not called blunt, this is call purposeful intention of causing hurt. Emotional hurt plus plus too. Physical hurt also got, emotional blackmailing also got. Shit.

Stop saying "you can't remember" or "not related" when it's to you advantage. If course when you do wrong to me, "you can't even remember". "I forgot".

Just now in Court 1 he's talking rubbish that my clothes were outside the house and tripping everyone that walk over. shit you?! the clothes are harmless and placed in ONE CORNER?! And someone under the bamboo poles used to hang clothes. Are you saying the people trip over the freaking bamboo pole instead??
Doesnt make sense!... grr. And plus, the clothes are placed ON TOP of a shoe shelf. HOW IS THAT TRIPPING EVERYONE. Stop giving excuses la and PAY BACK for my clothes!!!
Plus, YOU pakat with my parents, TELLING them to TELL people they instruct you to throw the clothes. When they said they didn't. What a wise, cunning person.

Regarding point no 13, how much of a liar can you become?! Obviously you said "Ensure that PEOPLE don't steal the money box" eh, you said PEOPLE very slantedly leh. You said PEOPLE not in a normal way eh.
It was obviously directed at me alone because WHO would want to steal the money box except the uncle who thinks I'm a stealer? Been accusing me of stealing things and that my 'bag' is a 'thief bag'. He has been accusing me of stealing since time immemorial.  And the cash box WAS NOT left unattended as we were NOT in prayers at that time. We were sitting around talking and it was after service! After eating too!... And I was sitting with James Ng my cousin!... talking!...

and. during "prayers" or service, I would sit together with my friends in front!... How am I sitting near the damn box. 

And to accuse me of stealing the money for my grandma's money would be utterly ridiculous. My grandma had been a love and help to me. How can I bear stealing her white money?!
Or ANYONE in the sense to steal dead ppl's $$. If my grandma would know about this, she would be So upset. These crap.

So, therefore, the uncle's claims and statement and provokation of saying "Ensure PEOPLE don steal the money box" is on purpose and UNWANTED.

Plus, remember and note: He didn't say it to the person in charge of the money box, he was EXCLAIMING to the air to ENSURE. Therefore making everyone hear it and inferring it was me. Come on.


Regarding Recording, he came to my house when my friends were in there. My aunty and uncle friend with 2 sons. And sit down IN FRONT OF ME and then he start pressing the RECORD button. Shows much abt him.

"It was difficult for everyone at a moment like this. Yet she did not seems to care" is bullshit. Does he care for what I feel at that time? Does he care for what I feel when he discarded my clothes and shoes?... Does he care when he exclaimed: "Prisoner! 1 year 2 months! ha.ha.ha" All these are not mentioned in his shitadavit. His affidavit is rendered useless.

Please. Both my cousin Joshua Tan Wei Rong and Jonathan Tan Wei Xian both took pictures of the coffin too. And the wreaths too.

Why doesn't he say about me upgrading grandma's ward? Due to the C Class ward, she developed Pneumonia and passed away. It's all because of the dirty air!..

Why ask my uncle to "deal with my wayward ways"? Why can't you ask a counselor? A female? A church counselor? A healer? A person who can pray for me? Why must you send me to IMH? Why can't you pray for me since you attend Miracle Service Lighthouse every Saturday?
Why can't you ask a pastor? Why can't you ask a leader? A stranger? Someone that knows me? Why can't you ask a mediator? Why can't you ask a youth service since this is a youth rebellion problem? Why can't you ask a wise woman? Why ask a stupid and rash and """robust""" uncle who is against me instead of dealing with me properly?
You are rots.

- Family conference

Grandma was getting better during the time of the conference. My second uncle whom she stays with wanted to bring her home.
The doctor came to the family conference and said "Your grandma has improved. She has just walked a few metres around the ward just now with the occupational therapist". And yet my uncle says she is heavily sick in the hospital at that time. What lies by the uncle.

- My father, his brother ask him to overtake me, so, he can reject what. My father ask him to be in charge of my family, Rudy Tan Seng Kok can reject what. Why must he accept and control me?... He didn't ask me for my permission before controlling me. I am a different soul here you know. I am a person. 
That shows that he WANTS himself to take "care" of me. That shows he is an extremely KayPoh person.

Him not informing me about my uncle's death is not an excuse. It is not an excuse. Oh, that I take pictures and post on Facebook and Blog. I never even Blog about my Grandma's death. I post it on my Facebook and only on my Facebook-family's account. And it is an excuse to say I will take photos and post on Facebook. Because what did I write on Facebook regarding my grandmother? Degoratory post?? Defamation post? Scolding my grandmother post? Instead I encouraged people to attend the wake. And emphatised that the dead will live through Christ. That was why I took the coffin photo WITH the CROSS inside. See in context la!...

"She was close to death and near to the end of her life". If you know she is nearing her end of her life, why don't you give her the best medical care?! Why must put her into C Class? Concerning that Joshua Tan Wei Rong earns like what $6000 per month?... Plus Jonathan Tan too.

"She never took care of her but we took care of her for 20 years" since you like to hog her so much. And whenever I want to visit my grandma they would ask my uncle to come by or call ambulance or chase me away or lock the door and don't let me come in. What bullshit. Even my father screamed during the wake, "YOU ALL NEVER EVEN BRING MY MOTHER TO MY HOUSE BEFORE!"

And you took care of her well? She fell down while you took care of her and you made her end up in hospital. If she was taken care of well, she wouldn’t have fell down and end up in hospital.


- Note: If I was "sick" or whatever shit, why don't you send me to a private psychiatrist? If not private, CGH, NUH psych? Why IMH? 证明 and proves that you obviously want to defame me and put me down so much I cannot get up. shit. What 'robust' way of dealing with wayward kids. It broke me down and I wanted to die! 
And giving that "I have a mental illness" as a EXCUSE. How did I get a mental illness? Because you DROVE me to IMH to get diagnosed. That's how this uncle 处理事. What a fugh.

--- If I "attempt to pull out grandma's tube", why don't report to SGH? Got evidence? Why must call my Home and complain and inform and instigate my social, case workers? Must talk to ALL of them ah? To what? So that they can kick me out of the home?.. Or?... Send me to IMH?... One of your Tricks again.

Pulling out the tubes... what a big assumption. I feel like scolding him in court. And I will verbalise my disdain during trial.

- Joshua Tan... the one who got a big fat scolding frm my father. For what?For screaming at my face during wake. And getting his ears go red with unneeded anger because of a simple shirt.

Rudy Tan Seng Kok avoided me because he has been given a police warning for throwing my damn bloody clothes away. If I don report to the police,.... he will still take a gun and make holes in me.

And Rudy Tan Seng Kok Asking Joshua Tan to be a witness is stupid. Just to justify I pulled out my grandmother's feeding tube? Breathing tube or feeding tube? You called my case worker and told her feeding tube. Obviously you're telling lies. To trap me. And put me down. I hate you. You're the reason of my life-killer depression.

He hasnt or has avoided me for the past 1 year because I have stayed in a protected group Home for the past year. If I stay at home and I start this PPO, u see if he got everyday come to my house or not.

I didn't "sneak up" to my grandma's house late at night. Sneak is a wrong word to use. There are CISCO guard downstairs to determine whether you can go up or not. If it was deemed inappropriate or too late, would the CISCO even register your name? I do it 大大方方. 
My uncle even told the maid who was stationed there to report to him if I ever come at night. The maid was smart enough even if she saw me she loved me as a member of the family as I also bought duck rice for her. He has intention of banning me from visiting my dying grandma if ever the maid reports to him. No consideration of me. And plus. My grandma was still awake. Nights are the loneliness time of the night. And plus, my second uncle Ah Cheong even got ask me why don't I offer to stay overnight to take care of Ah Ma. It is Ah Di Rudi Tan Seng Kok who makes things difficult.

Joshua is in Lighthouse evangelism. But he swears falsely that I PULL OUT MY GRANDMOTHER'S TUBE. This is wrong and ridiculous. 

Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? Who may stand in his holy place? The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not swear by what is false.
Psalm 24:3-4 

I don’t know why my cousin Joshua Tan Wei Rong is alleging that I pulled out my grandmother’s tube. I am getting the doctor to write a medical record for me that at 5 April 2016 Tuesday, she was not on any breathing tube, feeding tube, or tubes at all.

Let me explain the day’s event.

On 5^th of April 2016 Tuesday, I visited my grandma out of concern. When I reached there about 3pm, my cousin Jonathan Tan Wei Xian, Joshua Tan Wei Rong’s older brother was the only one there.

This is very important.

In the false Joshua affidavit which he swears falsely to Court, he says he was with Jonathan Tan Wei Xian his brother, my cousin when I was there. Jonathan was the only person there present at that time of visit. If whatever he has sweared appears to be false, you can charge him for that.

You can check with the CISCO registration guards who registered all our ICs when we visited the grandma. You can find that this Joshua allegation does not exist. And he is framing me.

When I walked towards and reached my grandma’s bedside, Jonathan just kept barked at me. “Ok. You leave now.” “Are you educated or illiterate?” “You are out of visiting hours”.  When I only saw my grandmother for a few seconds. At that time, my grandma was not on any breathing tube on her nose nor was she on any feeding tube as she was wheeled to the laboratory to do a CT scan on that day. I was concerned and wanted to be with my grandmother throughout and followed her to the laboratory. My cousin kept being a fence to my grandma and being like a dog fiercely guarding the territory as if there was any territory to begin with, he kicked me out of the lift to follow my grandma, and watched me like a hawk when I tried to follow to the lab on the corridor.

                It is extremely quintessential that the proof she went for a CT scan on that day. Because if she was on tubes, attached to the oxygen generator on the wall, she could not be able to push the whole damn bed out of the bloody ward to go to the laboratory to do a brain scan.

And why would I pull out the tube?? Even if it makes her uncomfortable, she has to have it because you can die of oxygen low. Am I trying to kill my beloved grandmother? This is crazily ridiculous.

In fact, there was one time she pulled up the breathing tube HERSELF and I Ran to the doctor to tell him and he coaxed my grandmother to put it on again.

I will never do such a thing.

This is maligning.

My cousin Jonathan Tan kept pushing me out of the ward. And he threatened to call Sa Pek (Rudy Tan Seng Kok) if I don’t leave. I was like What? I just reached and you’re telling me to leave already? Even on Sunday, my father was present, he barked at me to leave when I just stood for a few seconds when my father, mum and sister was there from 12pm to 6pm. 6 hours and me? few seconds.

And therefore, the Jonathan spout nonsense to Sa Pek, telling him that I pull out the feeding tube and what not.

This Jonathan also pulled my bag before after the family conference when I wanted to talk to the doctor. He pulled hard and was with an iron fist he held my bag, pulling it to it’s limits as I struggled to break free.

It was my uncle who degraded me in front of my cousins. Once my cousins looked up to me. But he made fun of me, laughed at me and sent me to IMH and tell everybody that my cousins despised me, hate me and be violent towards me. Because they treat me like trash. Because Uncle Rudy treat me like trash. They follow likewise. They were also influenced by him. Him telling that I am a stealer, I am a cheater, I am a psycho.

Joshua, go and tell the doctor whom I was speaking to when my grandma died at 5am that “Sorry do not listen to her, she’s from IMH” totally discrediting me and sending me to the pits of hell and disrespect.

If it were not my uncle who sent me to IMH, Joshua my cousin wouldn’t have the evidence to say that hey I’m from IMH and I’m a psycho, nobody should listen to me.

This sending to IMH is the worst treatment anyone could get and is the worst treatment an uncle can treat his own niece.

Firstly, you are seen as a psycho. No one would believe your words.

Secondly, whatever you hold dear is gone, people don’t want to marry you because you are a IMH patient, people don’t want to employ you. What you say will carry more weight then the patient and therefore my uncle wins me in the area.

Thirdly, he wants to keep me in IMH for a year, Joshua once told me, I will stay in IMH FOREVER. He WISH that I will stay in IMH Forever.

How tortured I am!

To have these cousins and uncle that instead of seeing the best in their relative, sees the worst in her and cause her her life, her friends and her relationship.

How tortured I am!

What is your objective of keeping me in IMH? People are being treated because they want to be well, they want to get better. But, the stay in IMH was forced, I was being sickly abused in IMH by nurses, where nurse were forced asked to leave because they were found out to be mistreating the patients, and an internal disciplinary enquiry was made.

 

my uncle also made frequent visits to my incarcerated self in the hospital with Joshua my cousin to ridicule me in the ward, ask my parents not to bring me out of the hospital and change number, replaced my parents when my case managers wanted to have a family conference, and so many other malicious thing that he do that cause my mental health to deteriorate then to improve.

Therefore I want the Court and him to write a law binding contract NEVER to send me to IMH anymore. There are so many psychiatric hospitals in Singapore. NUH, KTPH.

And that IF he sends me to IMH again, talking to the emergency doctor to admit me again, he would have broken the contract and has performed an undesirable action for me and, be charged accordingly.

After so many unnecessary forced injection and lock ups in hospital, Eventually I have depression and self-deprecation, effacement that was a life-killer. If I could have everything back that my uncle stole from me and a house, I would not be dying inside anymore perhaps.

He also made me homeless, kicking me from my home, locking the gates so that I don’t have the key, pasting the DEO application outside my door and destroying everything that I have.

I would like him to taste his own medicine. Send him to IMH.

Please make him compensate me because he has stolen my belongings and threw them all away.

RE: Request and Update of Criminal Misappropriation of Property

QT

Qi Long TEO (SPF)

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10/29/2014

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Mdm,

                I believe NIO Nelson had spoke to you yesterday. Currently the case is under the investigation of IO Li Ruo Han from DHQ. Please do contact her for further information as the files are with her, as the follow up actions will be done by her.

           

                I do understand your situation, but for further information please contact IO Li Ruo Han as she is currently the in-charge case.

                Thank you.

Regards,

CPL TEO Qi Long Bernard NPCO Team 'D' | Changi NPC Bedok Police Division | Singapore Police Force DID: + 65 6587 2999| Fax: +65 6587 2900| E-mail: TEO_Qi_Long@spf.gov.sg

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From: Genevieve Tan [mailto:gemmindown@hotmail.com]
Sent: Monday, 27 October, 2014 4:06 PM
To: Qi Long TEO (SPF)
Cc: aaron
Subject: Request and Update of Criminal Misappropriation of Property

Mr Bernard Teo,

Beside my three bags of personal belongings and clothes are stolen, my polytechnic Diploma with the pictures I took with the Dean and friends are stolen too.

I am aware that you have viewed the camera

But are you able to relook at that 2 July 2014 and the weeks before to try and see the other bags handling and whether there are any clues on my diploma cert.

I placed my Diploma and pictures inside the shoe shelf. I did not know they would check that cupboard.

I have been recently been admitted to hospital from 29 July to 23 October. The reason I was admitted was because I was sleeping at staircases and I did not have shelter. My doctor found out about it and he was obliged to admit me.

Therefore I could not contact you to have an update.

I understand that this matter has escalated to Bedok HQ, but I would still need to contact you. Because you met me at my workplace saying you will go to my uncle's house and probe him where are the rest of my belongings. 

I wanted to tell you to get back my stuff and put it at the station and when I am out I would collect it.

But now I have found a place to stay. I can try to hunt down my stuff and put in my own room I am paying for every month.

I understand that my friend Shawn has been calling Changi NPC to help me convey to you I was anxious to contact you about my case, My report number is G/20140703/2123

He called because I asked him to help.

I am currently staying in Bukit Batok, please call me back at 83350564 or reply this email on when it is convenient to meet to discuss my case.

Mr Bernard, I am very concerned and worried about my belongings. A huge amount of loss is affecting me. I don't have bras and underwears, clothes and t shirts for my daily necessities and I think my uncle should be punished for this fradulent rash behaviour. 

If he wanted my things away from outside my house, he should at least inform me first then to throw away my belongings or make it missing.

It is a grievous loss. Imagine someone throwing your whole wardrobe into the incinerator.

Please reply thank you.

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From: "Genevieve Tan" <gemmindown@hotmail.com>
To: "aaron" <gemmindown@hotmail.com>
Subject: Please forward to Nelson and Christabel: Pictures of my Uncle - Father's Third Older Brother and Plan

Hi Bernard Teo,

Please get my these bags back first, please get my property back from my uncle and call me immediately so I can go down to his place to get them.

My bags and my things that I own are important. I need to get them back pronto.

I have sent you the list of things that were in my bags.

And I had a $150 branded shoe - which is a Marvel Superman Shoes alongside with my belongings outside the house.

And most importantly my soft toys - the red huggie and a huge bear which I treasure very dearly and has helped me alot in sleep you need to get it back.

Inside I have my scissors, if I need them, my Prickly Heat Powder,(just bought) and my important documents of buying a house in Malaysia,

And Most Importantly I have my phones in those bags, My old Nokia E66 Phone with my details in there, my China phone I bought for $400,
and my Temasek Poly T-Shirt which can never be bought back if Stolen.

My things outside the house - worst. cunning.

All shoes gone. All shoes that are mine except my dad's still outside.

- Hangers even. are gone.
- even my menstruation pad. who takes them?!
- My bras and underwears. Still new! how can the karang guni man take away??!
- My important documents like my bank, applying for bank CPF investment.

- My alumni card
- Letter of prize from the police





My Uncle has committed a grave offence. By depriving his own niece of essential items. If you can reclassify this offence under an arrestable offence, it is considered as theft, then you should arrest my uncle as you can send him to lock up or charge him in court as you can imagine living for a month without essential clothes or their basic daily necessities.

Especially when your own parents lock you out of your house and have no place to put.

These are the things I took from home and was packed for me and my uncle threw.cdccd

And about him telling lies that I pulled out my grandma’s tube, telling lies is not foreign to him. He used to tell the doctors and court that I paint my room DARK blue when I painted it BRIGHT BLUE.

This is proof

He has tear down these posters of mine - positive things that CEO Chua has published and replaced them, pasting his newspaper around my house highlighting “schizophrenia” and “medicine” and tearing my own posters.

  

Past response to previous Affidavit:

September 2015

I would like to respond to the Affidavit of the claims made by the respondents.

I have written a response way before after I received the affidavits on my laptop saved on my thumbdrive. But that laptop, together with it’s thumbdrive are being taken away by my uncle and are yet to be seen or retrieved until now.

And I have to rewrite the whole of my response again.

On the first affidavit – of Rudy Tan Seng Kok

I wish to state not all of the facts and matters shown are true.

I don’t remember making a magistrate complaint in 2011. However, I do remember him pushing and wrestling with me outside Hougang Care Centre in 2011 and I made a police report. The police advised me to go make a magistrate’s complain. I wasn’t able to apply for a PPO because I wasn’t 21 yet.

                I was granted an Expedited Order because the judge felt my uncle was violent enough.

                I have roughly put a date 7 May 2014 but it has been numerous times my uncle has committed violence against me. I just put a rough date because I don’t have the exact date my uncle pounced on me.

                My father is not supposed to call uncle about my affairs at all. In 2013 when this case was being heard by Judge Wong Keen Onn, he ordered my uncle to be out of the picture and not to meddle with our family affairs.

                My uncle instructed my father to change the locks of the house on 7 May 2014, granting me no access. I had to sleep on the staircase of the house and landed me up staying in hospital because I didn’t have a proper place to pee and poo. I have been travelling to Malaysia, Seremban, my mother’s hometown, in search of her sisters for a roof over my head. I took a taxi back on 6 May 2014 because I couldn’t stay in their house. I decided at around 11pm at least this last minute turn can save my life.

                The date and time stated on the summon was a rough date because Rudy have commit So many offences of violence to me that I can’t put a finger to one particular date only. He has done it numerous times on numerous dates. And it seema frivolous now if I were to fight back.

                Prior to even 7 May 2014 he would instruct my sister and mother where to sit in the court room. He would gather them under him and instruct them each on how to go against me.

                In recent events, he would arrange private sessions with his lawyer and force my family to in a room with them and then when I try to talk to my mom and sister, he would brazenly and FORCEFULLY stand in front of me between me and my mom and sis. And say “You all go! I stand guard!” And he would whisper in my ear “bitch!” and “we also screw her up jialat jialat!”

                He would also threaten to throw down my laptop. “throw into the sea”.

                Past violence included 16 July 2010, he assaulted me with a sharp razor in his car. He pushed me down with his accomplice, my cousin Joshua on the road and snatch theft my bag. My finger bleeded, my right knee and right tow was injured.

                He also stole from me – clothes, magazines & CDs, wallets, namecards, money bag, contact lenses, journals, notes, ezlink cards, handphones and most importantly, my laptop.

                On top of that, he has verbally abused me, calling me names, abusive words and behavior with mockery and humiliation.

                He bullied me with intimidation, control and abused power. Pushing and shoving me like a rag-doll.

                He always gives belittling opinions and constant criticisms like ‘bitch’ and ‘coward’.

                He was so overbearing that my case manager threatened to call the CISCO over him and get the NHG lawyer to get him out of the picture Because basically he was instructing the doctors and nurses n IMH to admit me and not let me out. He wants me – the troublemaker, the one that is going to expose all of him – to stay locked up in IMH. He was the one who has been brining all of us to IMH, my father, me and then NOW my mother. My uncle got her diagnosed as depression when she was perfectly fine. And got me diagnosed as well. When the doctor insisted I was well he kept bringing me there.

                Dear Court, you really have to stop this, this uncle is ruining my future! He is so cunning to put an end to me, he sends me of all places, not to counseling, not to church, but to IMH!

                And therefore he conveniently puts a defence of no case to answer, because he is guilty and have no words to say of all the truths he was violent with me!

                The respondent Uncle Rudy has put me indeed into a lot of stress and embarrassment instead. He wanted me o stay in IMH for a year, voiding me of my work, my ability to work and not allowing me to work. The embarrassment he has caused me far outweighs any that on him.

                How can he and his nephew, my cousin Joshua Tan been helping me and my family? He and Joshua are the ones who pushed me on the ground and snatched my bag away from me. And would where he has the opportunity he would steal from me.  How can he be doing this for the welfare of me?! Torture and stifling me?

                I feel that I needed help to contain the unsavoury and violent behavior of Uncle Rudi as well as to put a stop to his incessant demands for my belongings.

Many a time he did not get what he wanted he would scold my father and mother and throw a tantrum. He was the one who would chide my father and scold my mother saying he was the one who produced me – her child.

                He also came to my house and threw away all my office chairs and my cupboard.

                My friend sent me my spectacles and until now, I have yet to receive the spectacles so that I can pay for it myself. My father has thrown my spectacles on the ground in fights before, he ran away with my specs in Hougang Care Centre before.

                The root cause is my uncle. Who made my father schizophrenic. And my father keeps pressuring and scolding me and my mum that she became low self-esteem and depressed. My father has not been taking his medicine sometimes . because my mother would pack his medicine and it still is there in it’s boxes,   my father did not lose his job because of me. His claims that I have Persistent harassment for money at the workplace which is utterly rubbish. My father was as usual, aggressive and treated his customers and colleagues badly that his boss has observed throughout time and decided to terminate his ridiculous behavior.

                 A response to Dr Ung’s letter:

                With regards to Dr Ken Ung’s letter. It is so manipulated because my uncle brought my mum to see him on 4^th Jan 2014 and request him to write about me in a letter. by my uncle. My uncle is not stupid. He knows when to make use when the situation calls for it and manipulates as desires.

                Seems like my uncle has been feeding the doctor all sorts of negative images of me – from stating I’m bipolar to me, to being in IMH.

                I was initially forced brought to IMH in 2009. The doctors said I was mentally sane but they, my parents refused to bring me back home and sent me to a care centre that further aggravate my emotions and developed mood swings. In IMH, I was subjected to endless injections and nurses abuse. The nurses bullied me.

                Then my father it me hard on the head with a chair. It caused me to bleed heavily and I had to be rushed to the hospital and I had 13 stitches on my head. That caused me mental illness If you want to say. From 2010, I then got diagnosed as bipolar. Clearly, my father caused my mental illness because of trauma on the head.

                Regarding his second line in his second paragraph, it is utterly rubbish. I WAS NEVER UNDER HIS CARE (DR KEN UNG’S) CARE in the past before coming under the care of IMH. I NEVER retrieved any medication from Adam Road Medical Centre. This is an absolutely FALSE statement. This proves a lot in the credibility of that doctor.

                Me staying in Hougang Care Centre was the cause of my uncle who instructed my parents not to take me home. It was because of seeing me laying motionless on the hospital bed during my 2011 admission they decided to take me home while they waited me in the high dependency ward.

                I did not stole from my father’s wallet. He took $1800 of my bursary money when it was awarded for me. My uncle was cunning and went to bed MOE for my bursary with my mum. This bursary money I had intended to purchase an iPhone 5S because my previous phone was spoilt. And I had already planned for it.

                My uncle is the one who has been, not just that time, stolen from me. My guitars, laptops, dvds, and keyboard pianos too.

These are over 100 DVDs that I have being stolen from him:

He would come to my house and threaten by taking unwarranted pictures and videos of me at my home. Pointing the camera menacingly at me. Joshua my cousin also.:

He also visited my church in 2 November 2014, bumping me out of my seat and causing harassment to me. I was VERY DISTRESSED from it.

It is not that I don’t comply to my medication. In 2013, my doctor DID NOT give me any medication because he said it is up to me if I want to take it because I have my human rights.

                Why do I need medication in the first place? The one that obviously need treatment and medication is my obsessive-compulsive uncle.

                Isn’t it because of my family situation that causes me this “mental illness”? Isn’t this violent and pervasive uncle of mine has caused me invariably to have a mood disorder? To be bullied like that, anyone can breakdown.

                My mother was BROUGHT to see Dr Ung by my uncle Rudy Tan. She shared with me the medicines giver her massive headache and she said: “Why do I have depression? That Sa Pek(Rudy) is siao!”.

                My mum wouldn’t want to see counselors. She didn’t even want to go on a counselling talk with me. And seeing counselors does her no good. She herself do not want to benefit from counseling.

                My younger sister is not distressed by me that she has to live apart. My father constantly SHOUTS at hom, rendering Elaine, my sister hard to study. She has to come out several times from her room to shout at my dad to keep quiet.

                You can have corroborative information obtained from my mother’s sisters. That my father has been verbally upsettingly abusing her.

                I am unable to cope with Rudy Tan and is afraid of him. I can’t live apart from my family because I did in 2010 in Simei Care Centre. And that separation anxiety caused me severe mood disorder. I still need the warmth and familiarity of my own home and room.

                Elaine Tan is not a docile and quiet person. She throws tantrums when she gets angry. And shouts and demands her way when things turn out not what she wanted.

                She even threw a seashell at my eye that I need to go hospital to use surgery removal of the seashell stalk in my eye.

                If my sister “went into depression” will my uncle bring her to IMH again like how he did to me, my father and mother? My uncle has been ORDERED by the family court judge not to be involved with the family even if his brother requested it. It was not because I go to get what I wanted but rather, his incessant presense has caused greater harm and more distress for me and my family. He is a kay-poh and wants to be involved for his benefit. If his involvement with the family is beneficial, the judge wouldn’t sense it and get him outta the way.

                I o not expect my parents or sister to support me financially. In fact. I have supported my parents financially and paid her $6000+ to her CPF.

                I have further evidence that IS my UNCLE has been messing my living room and kitchen. And my father is the one who throws his used underwear lying around the house and eats in a mess in the kitchen. (refer to Statement under pictures)

                It was ordered I could sleep in my bedroom, however, my parents cupboard was still in the bedroom. That was supposed to be moved out at any parquet’s cost.

                I started my painting job at 5pm and couldn’t finish so I stretched through the night. There was NO problem as well because the paint that I bought was NIPPON’S ODOURLESS paint which posed no problem to any noses of offensive smell. My uncle promised to paint my room since the beginning of 2013 because he stripped down all my decorative posters I had on the wall. He took them all down saying he did that because he would paint my room. That never happened and I had wanted to paint my room since 2012 because blue had a calming effect to me. Given the tumultuous situation, it was good to have a calming colour especially if you’re going to be in your room away from your family members in the living room. And since I was granted exclusive rights to my own room, what is wrong with painting your own room to whatever color you like. It wasn’t “a pale blue”. It was a bright continental blue. How can he distorts facts like this. It is obvious in the pic that it is NOT pale.

                I DID NOT leave it to my mother to clean up my passed motion and urinate in my room.

                I DID NOT pick up the faeces and threw it outside the door for my mom to pick and clean.

                In fact, I had to wait for my father to get out of the house for work before I dare to come out of my room to pass motion and urinate in the morning.

                I do not intend to ‘irritate’ my uncle so he would stay away from my parents or sister. I did that that he would stay away from ME! He has been violent, constricting, overbearing towards me and has caused me mental anguish much that to the point of a disorder breakdown. I do not demand my sister or money. In fact, I have been working hard and have a job. I cannot sustain a long-term job like this because of the constant abuse by my uncle Therefore I intend to sign on the army after I settle my family court case.

                To retaliate what he said:

                My uncle has refused to leave me alone and refused to listen to others. Instead he channeled his energy to making life MISERABLE for everyone especially for me.

                Court, I have made it very clear, with his physically and emotional violence. I need protection from my incessant uncle.

Gen 16 Sept 2015

                Part 2

1.       When my father say “cannot”, my uncle would say the thickest metal also can ah! You don’t come and that one!”

2.       When my aunty say “difficult”, he would scold her saying “you don’t have the tool, You DON’T LA!”

3.       Calls all of us as nicknames – me as “Penguin”. My sister as “small penguin” and my cousin as “Jing-oh”

4.       Instructing my cousin taking picture of even the cross in the flower pot – I don’t want to place the cross in front of the house when we are total hypocrites and stumblers.

5.       Keep saying and changing people’s suggestion.

6.       Joshua cousin – always saying “no problem” like his lackey man.

7.       I am afraid he is nice to my sister, he would turn ugly in the end if you don’t listen to him.

8.       Joshua cousin: “Threatening me. Shouting: “Police!” “

Been up the whole day filming evidence – if care if they are violent, I have to give evidence.

Part 3:

                He told my mum that I “Cannot eat the drumstick, throw away the drumstick”

                The difference between eating medicine and not eating medicine -> in a blur.

                I know my father wouldn’t be so quiet if he was not to eat medicine. What is ‘medicine’ really? We have to ask ourselves.

è If a person’s “illness” is attention seeking, they give him attention to satisfy his needs! If a person is lack of knowledge, give him the “medicine” of education!

I just have to understand the vigorous test go through, the exams, the late nights at their university hall..

People online have been talking about him cheating people

http://au.kopea.com/index.php/question/377289/have-anyone-being-cheated-by-rudi-tan-seng-kok-of-nric-no-s0079395g

Joshua Tan Wei Rong violence:

On 22 April 2016 When I was talking to the doctor on how Ah Ma died, he shoved me aside, quite figuratively, not literally, and TOLD the doctor, "Sorry ah, dont listen to her, she, ah from IMH". And the doctor stopped and looked at me with a different perception.

2 January 2014
I contacted and smsed him alot recently because I wanted to bless my immediate family. But.

He went to my church anniversary banquet and spoke very loudly in front of the whole church. In the middle of the hall. "YOU are WEIRD right? You have no friends right? Since secondary school right?"

Been calling me lazy, been calling me names, with the intent of causing anguish on me. But you must know: what made me so "lazy" as you call it?

Also, on the 25th December 2013 Christmas day, I called my aunty who is my father's 2nd older brother's wife Kim Hong, she's a very nice lady and a good Christian. She told me that I better not come to   Ah ma's house on Chinese new year. Because 'they' will chase me out.

My uncle ever scolded my aunty Kim Hong before. Saying she is too nice and she's a "mamala" or something like that. 

My aunty said "Love your enemy" so implying that my uncle and my father is my enemy. She said it was hard to.

And then my aunty's phone was configured to block me off so I could not call through to her.

My cousin Joshua, who is my aunty's son, has been bombarding me with words like I am "SICK!" and killing me with his menace. So I called Pastor Rony Tan, senior pastor and founder of Lighthouse Evangelism healing church to let him say that I'm healed.

I also went for Miracle Service and spoke to sister Barbara and she prayed for me saying: "No one can force her into anything she doesn't want, she is healed by God."

I also spoke to Pastor Clarence and he prayed "This is God's property, no one can enter and destroy God's property. By Jesus' stripes you are healed." So I told that to Joshua my cousin and he said something to the likes of "Scared what? Our numbers are here: +65 9648 3478 and sa pek 94517163 ask them to call us. I am MORE then glad to speak to him."

Always having a head over me. The end.

 Why would a mother, her daughter and in fact, a whole family lie about a daughter's ability and score? Why were they ashamed of her score? What are they doing to the child psychologically and emotionally?

Even after my advice that she shouldn't expose this girl, my daughter went to ask her, and understandably became the enemy of this family. They started complaining to the coach about my daughter etc etc. If not for the understanding and fair coach, it would have been my daughter who quit the sport.

Five years have since passed, and we have all moved on from PSLE. I wonder if they have finally realized that 219 or 291 did not mean a thing, if this girl did well in other areas, she should be in Polytechnic or JC. My daughter has moved on too. In a few months, she will be graduating with her degree, ahead of the many 290s, 280s, and 270s.

PSLE is nothing but a placement exam, and one that is only understood in our Little Red Dot. You can wave your 290 at anyone else and he will think you are crazy. It should therefore not affect our moral fibre, our integrity or our belief system. It is also not a fair way to measure our children. It is a score that helps the system allocate schools. A poor measurement of our children's abilities: it does not measure the child's honesty, sporting ability, aesthetic ability, empathy, kindness, gentleness, etc etc... I can go on and on.

Ultimately, success is seldom measured by academic achievement alone - much less PSLE, there is so much, much, much more to it! So this weekend, refrain from asking a child his/her PSLE score. Talk about something else he/she is passionate about. Let him/her knows you care about him/her, and not trying to measure him/her by that silly score.


15 Dec 2013 11:48pm
Just now after receiving these messages from my cousin:
Call me. I got something to ask u. 
And i want to share some things with u also. Ah ma want to talk to u.
I didn't reply. Till it was this: 
My friend shifting house. Got 2 aircon unit still working. Do u want it? If yes, reply fast, otherwise he will throw it away. 
I replied:
I already said I cannot sms. I have no money to sms or call. Pls reply via whatsapp. I can't reply anymore. Bye
And at that very moment, a few minutes later my phone restarted. 
Somehow, my network was compromised. Restarting and hacking into a phone and spying is available as a service in Singapore.
You just have to leave your phone alone in the other's hand for awhile.
On the month of October 2013 when I started to write online at TREmeritus and TheRealSingapore about my terrible IMH ward experience, some of my phone's contacts suddenly became missing, which was absurd. Their names were intact. But their numbers were missing. Deleted. My phone started to restart by itself, 
And went white screen for numerous times. 
When I switched my phone to a Samsung Wave 535, the same thing happened. This happens to only smart phones. 
If I ever found out that either these 2 people I prosecute hacked into my mobile and phone system, 2 civil lawsuits will be upon their shoulders.
Diana, 
What abt emotional abuse? Does that also count for not loving someone? If someone don't care or communicate with you everyday, and just think that providing food and allowance is enough, isn't it also a form of an abuse? To me, it's the worst form of abuse, the traumas &amp; scars can't be seen which makes it even harder to heal. How to heal from that? Even if I choose to divorce when my kids are older, I am still scarred from it. 
Even a plant grows better when it is showered with lots of attention, like singing or talking to it, not to mention a human being.
moorspa7, May 24, 2012 #8



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When I visited my grandma he forced me to say what I am doing in front of my grandma, he forced my grandma to ask me what job I’m doing. She is a patient, she should rest. You are giving her undue stress by forcing her to ask what I am doing. Like I’m doing a proper job etc. This is irritating.